Welcome, Summer!

Summer has finally, gloriously arrived! It is so nice to throw off our sneakers and run around in flip-flops again! The kids are loving being able to be in and out (and in and out, and in and out, and in and out…) all day long without the burden of eight layers to take on and off! E is out of school and we are glad to have this little breather.

After saying goodbye to my family, we enjoyed a lovely week of sick children. That seems to have finally run its course and we can now get into the random routine of summer. We’re still figuring out what our days look like, but it’s been nice to just be able to chill a little and spend time together, including late night Sweet Frog runs and longer library visits.

Brian is rushing to get Unit #3 done since new residents arrive on July 5 and, well, it still has no bathroom fixtures, every linen in the house needs to be washed, the entire kitchen needs to be organized and cleaned, and, oh yes, there’s still not all the tile on the walls. But, don’t worry, Brian’s got it “all under control.”

Besides unit #3, the storage shed is being slowly worked on. One of the board members is coming up for a few hours a day and has gotten at least two walls up so far. The second bathroom at the pavilion is just about ready for fixtures (finally!), but Brian is going to put a hold on that if he has to do it until after the house is done. We said goodbye this week to another resident who was here for a year. Over the next month, we’ll have various people coming and going; by September, a whole new crowd will be here long-term.

I am working on various projects over this summer. I may not be teaching full classes on Sundays, but I will be working with the kids each week, which will require some lesson writing. I’m doing some extra writing on the side and hoping to make some good progress, even sending it to a test group yet this month if all goes well.

I am doing something I’ve never done before: I joined a book launch group to help promote a brand new book coming out in July entitled “Remarkable Faith” by Shauna Letellier. It’s been an amazing book to read through and I’m privileged to help her get the word out about it. Check it out – it’s absolutely incredible!

I’ll be starting my articles for the next BCM World pretty soon. And then, I begin discipling one of our 6th graders in July and I’m organizing the church’s summer carnival for August. So, you know, just another lazy summer.

This Sunday marks the end of an era in my family as my father will preach his last sermon as a full-time lead pastor and step down. He is desiring to remain in ministry, but not in a full-time capacity. For this season of their lives, though, my parents have decided to do what every good retired person from PA does: move to Florida. At the end of July, Brian and my brother-in-law will be helping my dad move their stuff to Florida. They’ll do a little more visiting and finally move down after our children return to school the end of August. It’s bittersweet, and sometimes downright sad, but we know this is what they need to do. Just continue to pray for our kids, especially our daughter, as this transition will be hardest on them.

A newsletter will go out in the near future; as always, just let me know if you’re not on our list! It really does cover things we don’t talk about here, just to keep it interesting. 😉

Thanks for tracking with us!

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Oh yes, and I’m facilitating a ladies’ Bible study online (which is awesomely fun!), but this is how it happens: with a little stinker throwing socks at me the whole time and thinking he’s hilarious. 🙂

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May has been jam-packed! Let me see if I can highlight our different ministries for you:

Bible Centered Ministries:

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Currently, our projects have been in direct relation to the massive flooding occurring in real-time in Sri Lanka. Brian is doing the web work of getting up donation pages, etc, while I’m writing. My evening yesterday was spent working on writing an update to be sent out globally and talking quite a bit with our field director online. The situation is dire, sad, and unfortunately, not over yet. Please pray with us for our brothers and sisters in Sri Lanka! Protection, provision, and the cessation of rain.

Grace Bible Church:

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We closed out our Wednesday evening Kidz Konnect on May 10 with an awesome group of kids and parents. We are attempting to have monthly Wednesday night meetings this summer in order to keep momentum going. My summer plans include the planning of these events, organizing a family carnival slated for the end of August, and writing some Bible lessons {a project I’ll explain another time}. I will also be discipling one of our girls, something I’m probably most looking forward to!

Brian and I had the opportunity a week ago to share our ministry at our church. For some it was the first time that they heard all we are involved in, so we were glad for the chance to give an update!

Missionary Retreat Fellowship:

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This picture is already dated; Brian finished tiling the floor in the bathroom in Unit #3 and is preparing to tile the walls. Of course, the unexpected always arises and this morning he’s helping the sewer guys take care of a sewer alarm. But, I know he’s hoping to get the walls tiled as soon as possible.

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This is the area for the new heated workshop. They are getting ready to pour concrete and then the structure should go up fairly quickly. Brian is not working alone on this, which is helpful. He’s definitely looking forward to having a space to do projects and have storage {and I have to admit, not having a giant tractor in my garage will be rather nice!}.

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This is a driveway in behind the Main House duplex. They began the clearing of the woods last fall and Brian was finally able to spread gravel and actually turn it into a usable driveway. The current tenants are appreciative of their own parking spot with closer access to their door. And let’s be honest, Brian didn’t have a hard time “finding time” to play with the tractor!

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Last Friday, we had our pastor’s banquet for MRF where we invited in area pastors and provided a meal, first and foremost to thank them for their involvement with MRF and then to encourage them in their own ministries. We had a pretty good turnout and it was an enjoyable evening.

This week, we say goodbye to our neighbors who have actually been here three years. They are now all my children know for neighbors, so this transition might be the most difficult yet for them! We are happy for them, though, that they finally have their support to get to the field (a testament to how hard it is to raise funds anymore!).

The Children:

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E will finish school in one week! She is looking forward to being home. Even a week ago, she drew us a picture that showed us how very much she craves being with family. We spent Memorial Day with good friends and she kept commenting how it was “the best Memorial Day ever!” since we were all together all day long.

The two boys are wild and want to be outside constantly. Our nasty rainy weather has impeded that, though. The 2 year old is fighting some pretty awful allergy issues so we’ll be in the doctor’s office again this afternoon. Poor kid. Just can’t seem to kick his fevers and stuffiness. He’s talking up a storm, though, and we are actively working on being a “gentle giant” since his go-to is a tad more violent than necessary!

This week, one of my closest friends is visiting from the south! Haven’t seen her since she showed up in Peru in 2009. Counting down the days until Sue gets to meet my children for the first time!!

Then next week, my siblings arrive and we have the retirement celebration for my dad. They listed their home less than two weeks ago and it sold within the week. You can be praying for our family as we walk this new road and begin this new season of life. Our daughter has not been good at “goodbyes” since we left Peru and this one is especially difficult for her, probably because it’s not especially easy for me, either, since they will be moving to Florida and not staying in the area. Just pray for all of us, including my parents. It’s rough.

Thanks for checking in! See you in June…

Cleaning Up!

The blizzard of 2017, “Stella”, really did a number up here in NEPA! We got about 32″ of snow when it was all said and done, most of that falling Tuesday during the day, sometimes 2″ an hour. Brian was incredibly thankful for the new tractor, which made digging us out so much easier.

While we were busy cleaning up snow, we began to receive messages from friends in Peru regarding the massive flooding. By now, you have probably seen it on Facebook, on here, or received emails from BCM about it. In a nutshell, the rains in the Andes have caused flooding in the coastal regions, up and down the entire coast of Peru, including the BCM Peru property outside of Lima where we used to live. The property has been decimated and it’s unclear yet when or if they will be able to move back home and begin ministry there on the property again. We ask for your continued prayers and support as they go through the weeks and months ahead. You can securely donate by clicking here.

This Saturday is the annual training day at our church. I’m wrapping up prep now and looking forward to the day. I head to Lancaster for a writer’s conference in a couple of weeks, hoping to glean some more information for future reference. Brian and I are helping plan a marriage conference for April that we are super excited to be a part of. We have some very close friends whose baby has been in and out of the NICU since the beginning of March. Brian helped take them down to Hershey to a better NICU and as they come home this week we’re part of a group doing all we can to be their support system during this exceptionally difficult time. Pray for Jax and his parents, Jeremy and Kara; the last few weeks have been really trying for all of them.

E is back in school this week! No word yet on when her last day will be, but we know it’ll be later due to all the snow days. Baby J has taken off talking lately! Most of his vocabulary has to do with vehicles: car, bus, “kuck” (truck). He FINALLY learned how to say “Joe Joe”!! He ran into his brother’s classroom after my Bible study Tuesday yelling “Joe Joe!” at the top of his lungs to let him know it was time to go. Big J is busy playing fireman as I write this and he just informed me that he will, in fact, one day leave me in order to be a fireman, but it’s okay because I can go visit him whenever I want.

Watch your inboxes for a newsletter this week! Don’t get it yet? Let me know and I’ll add you!

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Info about the Peruvian flood:

You may have heard of the weather phenomenon “El Nino.” We literally heard stories about El Nino while we lived in Peru – how bad it would rain and the dangerous floods. But, it hadn’t happened in years!

Well, it’s happening now. Rain up in the Andes Mountains is causing horrible flooding and landslides all throughout the country. There are 25 regions in Peru and 20 of them are struggling with floods. At least 56,000 people are displaced. And then as the rains come down in the mountains, the rivers in the valleys flood as they head out to the ocean.

A river runs along the edge of BCM Peru’s property, where we used to live. The property is home to missionary houses, the campground, and  many other buildings. A usually idyllic setting has been turned into a disaster zone. As night began on March 15, they were warned the river was beginning to crest again. By midnight, all 55 people were evacuated, including 19 children. They left with nothing but the clothes on their backs.

Neighboring ministries have opened their doors to house all these people and are offering food and shelter for the time being. Some men are staying on the property to ward off would-be looters and do what they can to salvage what’s left. They were able to enter homes and fill bags with essentials and valuables, which is a good thing. But, the roads going in and out of the property are gone, so they have no idea when they will be able to get back in with trucks for more personal belongings.

Keep in mind as well, this water is not crystal clear, clean river water. This is the run-off of local pig and guinea pig farms and the village sewer.

I can’t really describe to you the pit sitting in Brian’s and I’s stomachs as I type this. We are part of the home office of BCM now, so our task  has been getting this information out to all of you as quickly and succinctly as possible. It’s been hard to separate “work” from “heart” all day as we sift through videos and images and try to word this in a way for everyone who has NOT been to Peru to understand the gravity of the situation.

This is not a ministry that was  constructed overnight. This is years and years of work, donations, blood, sweat, and tears. We lived there. We walked those paths. We have pictures of little E throwing rocks into the river. I remember sitting in my bedroom with the window open listening to the melody of water running in the irrigation canal early in the morning. It’s an absolutely gorgeous setting – like nowhere else I’ve ever been. To see it just ravaged and unrecognizable really does a number on your head, and your heart.

I encourage you to take a minute and put yourself in their shoes. Some have lived on that property for their entire married lives. Pretty much all of those 19 children have known no other home. To have to wake your children up and rush them through a river in their front yard, leaving behind all their belongings, clothes, snacks, pictures, memorabilia – and into trucks and backhoes to safety – I can’t even imagine. Now today, they are able to stay with Christians nearby, but that is not a permanent solution. The school year just began; do the kids even have their uniforms, backpacks, or pencils with them?

Life has been altered for them for an indefinite amount of time. Would you help? BCM is collecting donations that will be given directly to the leadership to help with supplies and living essentials right away. You can click here to do so.

Watch our Facebook, BCM Intl’s Facebook, BCM Peru’s Facebook, and BCM’s website for additional information, updates, and even live video and pictures.

Pray that God will stop the rain! Pray for safety, provision, and protection.

Click Here for a brief video.

Snow Day!

I want to see how quickly I can write an update since I need to call in my snow children very soon or else they will be frozen children!

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this was about 9am – you can see the van behind the pile on the railing, just barely

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This is in the afternoon – keep in mind, Brian cleared the porch completely between the two pictures! And he’ll have to clear it again in the morning.

We are nearing the end of a very legitimate blizzard. The last real blizzard we’ve had was back in South Dakota the day after Easter, 2006. I believe we’ve actually more snow here in PA than we did back then! We have more than 2 feet and it’s still snowing super hard – and is supposed to continue for a few more hours yet! The wind is beginning to pick up and school is already canceled for tomorrow.

Brian went out before 9 this morning to begin clearing off our porches and get the tractor out. By law, we have to have the MRF road clear in case of a fire emergency. But, it’s taken Brian and Don literally all day and they still have not finished the road. The snow has come down so fast and hard, plus there’s a layer of ice underneath, so they keep sliding around! Brian was home three times – twice just to swap clothes in and out of the dryer and once for a quick lunch. He’ll need to stop soon with the sun going down, but they’re hoping to have the bulk of it done by then.

The kids think this is glorious! And I don’t blame them! They got a little nervous this morning, though, as it was coming down pretty fast and hard and Big J kept getting stuck. This afternoon, our neighbors are out with them, building forts and igloos and pulling Big J out when he can’t move anymore! They’re having a blast and I hate to end it, but E was just inside for a minute and she is RED and so, so cold and wet. I think I’d be a bad mom if I let them stay out much longer…

Here’s a brief family update in the interim:

  • Training at the Chinese church on Saturday went very well. We were told to plan on 25-30 and we had 35-40 trainees. Very attentive, so welcoming and considerate. It was a joy to teach them and see the grasp concepts and plan to put them into practice. Had some great conversations afterwards and am looking forward to returning next year, Lord willing.
  • I have been struggling with a cold/cough for three weeks now and it’s finally got out of control on Friday. There was really nothing I could do about it by then, so I got a bunch of cough medicine and powered through Saturday. By Sunday evening, though, I was pretty sure I was getting Influenza A because I was so sick and run down. I dragged myself to urgent care Monday morning and was told I didn’t have the flu, but I needed to rest (she even offered a doctor’s note if I thought I needed it, so I guess she was serious…) and she got me some stronger medication. So far, the only difference has been no fever. I’m pretty wiped and ready for bed, but that can’t happen for a while yet, so I’ll hang on a bit longer! Brian’s coughing too; praying he doesn’t get as bad as I did!
  • Brian has the one bathroom down to the studs and has purchased a new cast iron tub for in there. It has a ways to go, but it’s going to look much better. All of that is on hiatus during this blizzard, though.
  • The printed BCM World should be off to the printers any day now. Final edits are happening and whenever Brian can take a breath from all this snow, he’ll do the updates and it’ll be ready to go! Phew.
  • My article is off to the editor for the e-zine, which Brian will begin, again, after this storm! There’s just not enough hours in the day…
  • The 25th is our church’s training day so now that I’m done with NJ, I can really finish up prep for ours.

That’s pretty much life in a nutshell! Okay – off to call in the snow children and figure out what in the world to feed them… Stay safe & warm!

It’s the most busiest time of the year…

We wear many hats, but like I’ve said before, very rarely do they align into a perfect storm.

But… sometimes they do. Like March. Possibly April. And definitely June. But, we’ll worry about that when the time comes.

A “perfect storm” for us just means lots of deadlines in a variety of different areas, all coming at the same time. Not unlike your life, I am sure! But, here’s what it looks like for us these days:

Currently, Brian is finishing up the printed edition of BCM World. His graphic design skills have greatly improved and this edition came together faster than the last two. But, it’s not quite done yet. Hopefully, it’ll just be a few more edits and then off to the printer!

While the print edition is almost complete, he is beginning the next e-version. The articles are arriving in his inbox, which means he has to begin sorting and adding pictures and layout, along with the building of multiple web pages and emails.

The beginning of each year also finds Brian doing updates on various BCM websites around the world. This year is no exception; he has quite a few requests for new websites and consultations planned in order to update old ones.

He does all that work after the kids are in bed. During the day, he’s been working on Unit #3 (click here for older pictures). Needing many updates, Brian has begun in the bathroom (this one has one and a half baths), which is currently emptied of everything but the tub… which, upon further inspection, will also vacate the premises later this week. He’s praying the wall behind the tub is fine, otherwise this job just got even bigger. The house is a mess; I think he said he has six weeks to finish… I hope that’s enough!

As for me, I have my article for this edition of the BCM World well underway, but nowhere near completion. March is my month for trainings, but unexpected meetings also cropped up at church, which involved a substantial amount of prep work. This Saturday, I head to New Jersey to train a group of 30 Chinese in children’s ministry. I’ll meet a friend and BCM Appointee there and we will co-train, relieving some of that burden. Then on the 25th is the annual training day for our church that I lead. Of course there’s prep, plans, and programs in between then, too. Oh, and an impromptu trip to Connecticut to spend some much-needed time with my big sister for her birthday! I am SO EXCITED for our time together even if it will equal only about 24 hours in the end!

Naturally, we all got sick on top of it all. Like clockwork. Every time we get super busy (and every time the BCM World is due), we get sick. I had zero voice Thursday (much to my boys’ great amusement!) and spent Saturday in bed. I just hope Brian doesn’t get it as bad.

As for the kids… they’re holding up just fine. E is getting ready to loose a top tooth (which is big news for any six year old). Big J has finally discovered coloring! He LOVES to color and very carefully roll (not fold – roll) each precious picture and tape them closed as gifts for his family, especially big sister for her return from school. Baby J has adequately learned the word “No.” I’m really hoping he’ll move on from that one soon and learn something a little more pleasant, like “Yes!” I’d even settle for his big brother’s real name, “Joe!”, not just his nickname of, “No!”, that is usually screeched repeatedly all day long.

I finally found my camera. I leave you with a few recent pictures:

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We had a nasty weather system move through the end of February – you may have seen on the news that a tornado touched down in our general area. If you look closely, the brown sludge out there is a river of water washing away our driveway. Our phones gave us tornado warnings all evening, but my dear mid-western husband sat on the porch and watched it roll in until it began to hail and kept yelling through the porch, “Doesn’t look like a tornado to me!” And then during a little delay in the storm, he threw on his boots and went outside to unplug the drains – which actually saved us from a very flooded basement, so I’m not going to complain too loudly! I’m also thankful he had the foresight to quickly return the metal-handled rake to the basement as soon as he heard thunder.

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E had spirit week at school. Thanks to some friends, we got her all dressed up as a little pink cowgirl for one of the days!

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Dancing Skill Nite during Wednesday evening kid’s program last week. So fun! We followed it up with a talent show and my daughter wanted to show off her art, but I think she instead showed that she loves to teach (don’t know where she got that from…)

 

Welcome, Rainy February

Just got home from taking our daughter to school. Yet another 2-hour delay! Freezing rain is such a pain. Now it’s warmed up and just plain raining. Feels more like spring than February! I’m afraid it’s just being deceptive.

Brian is out with a board member purchasing a tractor for MRF! This was approved by the board at their meeting and Brian is ecstatic. A tractor will be so helpful out here in the woods! He’s had to just borrow one the last four years; it’ll be nice to have one that belongs to MRF.

The two empty houses are getting nice makeovers right now. The kitchen in one home had lots of cabinets, but one of them was literally falling off the ceiling. It had always housed an overload of dishes and had finally succumbed to the weight. Brian removed it and then stabilized a few other cabinets since the home is not new and the cabinets have been bowing for awhile.

The other house has had a mice issue for quite awhile, but when you have constant residents for more than two years, it’s hard for Brian to get in and really assess the cause of the mice issue. He finally figured it out. Unfortunately, they had built a nest above the oven, inside the range hood! What a mess! That’s been disgusting to clean out and repair, but he’s basically done now. He’s also replaced a toilet that was obviously installed in the ’70’s!

My job now will be to go in to both houses and rearrange the kitchens and cabinets, as well as remake the beds and fold all the laundry. I’ll also need to finish cleaning once Brian is done with all the repairs.

At church, we are preparing to take the Wednesday night kids to a local nursing home on the 15th. They have made just about 60 sun catchers and will finish them up tomorrow night. We have about 30 kids that we’ll be taking to the home. It’s an endeavor, but we’re really looking forward to it!

Last week, for the first time in a long time, I completely messed up my schedule. I had written down the wrong dates for the Clarks Summit University ministry conference! So, I’m making dinner Tuesday evening and hear my phone beep — it’s an email reminding me to be on the campus by 6pm to set up! oops. The bigger complication was that we had a friend visiting for the week and I had specifically told her last week was better than this week because of the conference! Oh good grief. She ended up coming with me all three days and it was absolutely wonderful having her along! The conference went well and I had a few good conversations with students. I may have messed up, but it still worked out just fine.

Two personal family notes:

  • Brian is in the process of becoming an elder at our church. He was nominated by a church member awhile ago. We prayed (a lot!) about it until he finally accepted the nomination. He was questioned by the existing elder and pastoral team, who unanimously approved of him. This past Sunday, after a fellowship dinner, he was questioned by the church body. It went very well. I was so proud of him because being questioned isn’t, obviously, his most favorite thing to do. But, he answered so well and our church family is so supportive. It ended up being an encouraging time.
  • I leave Friday evening for Beth Moore’s LIT Conference in Houston – a one-day event on Saturday, specifically designed for women who want to use writing, teaching, and speaking as a ministry. Will you pray with me that this trip will be beneficial and that I will use what I learn right away? I know God wants me to do more with my writing and I would love to teach more than just children. I’m praying this conference gets me moving in 2017. I have a wonderfully supportive husband who is fully behind me, too. I got an email this morning from Beth Moore saying that everyone at her office has handwritten all 744 names of the attendees and are praying over them – by name. They prayed every name out loud, then posted all the sticky notes around the building so they could pray for us by name the rest of the week. I am thrilled that I get to be part of this group and I can’t wait to see what God does! Pray for my trip (I hate traveling alone) and for Brian home with the kids (just until Sunday night). My daughter, especially, has a hard time when I’m not home. Thankfully, they have an amazing dad, so I’m not worried.

Still no pictures… I have slacked off this month and will regret it later, I’m sure! You’ll just have to believe me that the houses look great, the kids are still cute, and it’s white and cold outside. Oh wait – here’s one from right now!

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How we roll: color wonder markers, squished on the small couch when the big one is completely vacant, talking to Mommy constantly while I try to work. 🙂